Maybe someone know about it, or maybe not.
But I can tell you a little about it.
Ying Yang is a theory originate from Eastern.
In this theory, everything exist in Ying or Yang.
Ying is about softness, slow, go down, go in, destruction, negative...
Yang is about hardness, quick, go up, go out, creation, positive...
You can see that Ying against Yang.
I can show you an example with people characteristic:
A generous man and a selfish man.
The idea about Ying Yang and our relationship, I think this idea will help you much when you have a relationship.
I am taciturn (or reticent mean I am very quite, not talking too much). I have 2 buddies. They all are talkative ( mean they talk too much). You can see Ying and Yang here. I am Ying, my friends is Yang. Ying against Yang, but why we are buddy.Although, Ying against Yang, Ying support Yang. Although, Yang agaisnt Ying, Yang support Ying. It like 2 pole of a magnet. It appeal each other.
I am not a talkative man, but I will be a listener. So when my buddies speak, I listen.
Yes, a speaker always feel comfortable when there is a listener.
Speaker and Listener, Yang and Ying. It is not speaker and speaker. A speaker will not listen a speaker because he want to speak. It is like Yang and Yang. The same with listener and listener, they have nearly no talking. It is like Ying and Ying.
You can see that Ying and Ying or Yang and Yang, one of them push another like the same magnet pole.
A speaker will hate another speaker because he doesn't let him speak. Anyone of them doesn't want to be a listener. The same with listener and listener.
If you want to have a good relationship, you should think about Ying and Yang. You are Ying or Yang. Your friend are Ying or Yang. Your parent are Ying or Yang...
If you are Ying and your friend are Ying, how you build a good relationship. Or if you are Yang and your friend are Yang, how you make him like you
It is not a problem. Ying and Yang is relative and you can change it, but you have to notice. If you are speaker and your friend are speaker, you should turn yourself from speaker to listener. That mean you convert from Yang to Ying. It sounds simple, but take care. Only you notice Ying and Yang, you remembet you have to be a listener. If you are not remember, you will act as a speaker.
Use this Ying and Yang theory in your relationship, you will build a good relationship.
I also love your comment for this idea. Thanks!
